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Obviously Barbie and Ken aren’t the only source of messages about how to look, what to wear, how to be.

These messages are everywhere. So why a section on Barbie and Ken (and his cousin GI Joe)?

These toys tell us a lot about what society values about masculinity and femininity, ethnicity and sexuality...


“Barbie has become more than a toy – she is a cultural icon."

(Norton, Olds, Olive and Dank, 1996. Pg 288.)

 

Focussing on Barbie and Ken allows us to highlight the way these dolls and other cultural ideals (models, celebrities, centrefolds, dancers, athletes) present stereotypes of body image which can contribute to people feeling bad about themselves.

 

A recent Australian study found that;

‘A young woman randomly chosen from the population would have a 7% chance of being as ectomorphic as a catwalk model, a 3% chance of matching an international model, a 0.3% chance of matching a shop mannequin, a 0.1% chance of matching a “supermodel”, and no chance at all of matching Barbie!!’

 

Have you heard about the Barbie Liberation Organisation? They found a way to swap the voice mechanisms of the Talking Barbies with those of the GI Joes. The talking Barbies ended up saying things like ‘vengeance is mine’ while the GI Joes were saying ‘Let’s go shopping’. Imagine a day when it’s okay for GI Joe to miss the gym for a day and go shopping and for Barbie to put on her sensible shoes and get angry.

 

Most of us know that the advertising, beauty, fashion, diet and cosmetic surgery industries all deliver strong messages about how people should be, look and dress. However without alternative role models we are often left with the media definitions of how we should look and be.

 

Take a look at the magazines you are reading. Models that are air- brushed and touched up, unrealistic body images, ads that encourage underage drinking, tobacco use, violence, violence against women, plus the unbelievable promises – bigger breasts, lose fat in 14 days, six pack abs in two months, acne banished in 30 days. For more on being a critical viewer of the media see our section ‘Getting Vocal’.

 

It’s virtually impossible to avoid hearing and seeing these messages however we can choose to ignore them or critique them. We can try and ignore them so we can move towards developing a new outlook and we can critique them in order to remind ourselves and others of their destructive influence. Thinking about the way bodies are portrayed in these messages, what the goal of the messages are (are they trying to sell you something?), and what kind of stereotypes are implicit in them, is a useful way to begin undermining the power that they can have in our lives.

 

Unfortunately people around us often accept these messages and we can be faced with seemingly endless conversations about weight, food and dieting. We can choose how to respond to these conversations; we can walk away, redirect the conversation to something else, or use them as an opportunity to talk about the issues.

Some things to think about…

One study found that if GI Joe Extreme was life size, he would have larger biceps than any bodybuilder in history.
Did you know that the word ‘doll’ is derived from the Greek word ‘eiddon’ meaning idol.
If Barbie was life size she would have a waist of 16 inches and wouldn’t menstruate.


Feeling Gorgeous

Feeling gorgeous and developing body satisfaction can help to protect us from developing eating difficulties. We may have family or friends who talk about hating their bodies and feeling bad about themselves – learning how to like ourselves might mean learning to think about things in a different way. Sometimes we don’t feel so great about ourselves, and our bodies can often take the blame for this – when you are having one of those days here are some ideas of ways to boost your body image and start to feel gorgeous:

• Live life out loud – dance, swim, wear shorts, enjoy a picnic – whatever size or shape you are.


• Stop weighing yourself and dieting.


• Don’t put your life on hold until you reach your ‘ideal’ weight.


• Look at real people’s bodies and faces – the more we see a diverse range of people the less power created images will have over us.


• Practice guilt-free eating.


• Appreciate all that your body can do; running, dancing, breathing, laughing, dreaming, etc.


• Keep a top-10 list of things you like about yourself -- things that aren't related to how much you weigh or what you look like.


• Beauty is a state of mind, not a state of your body. When you feel good about yourself and who you are, you carry yourself with a sense of confidence, self-acceptance, and openness.


• Surround yourself with positive people. It is easier to feel good about yourself and your body when you are around others who are supportive and who recognize the importance of liking yourself just as you are.


• Accept their compliments.


• Every time you see a magazine article telling you to be thinner, exercise more or wear more flattering clothes – don’t let it hang like a personal accusation – ask what are they selling?


• When you start giving yourself a hard time – cut yourself slack. No body’s perfect.


• Wear clothes that are comfortable and that make you feel good about your body.


• Think about all the things you could accomplish with the time and energy you currently spend worrying about your body and appearance. Try one!


• Strut your stuff – show the world your talents.


• Educate yourself – check out our Getting Vocal section for some great reads

WARNING: Exposure to stereotypical images may be hazardous to your body image.